Soumya

Fear

 

Garvit Goyal

Fears

Fear, It is a word that scares each and every person and same is with me. I am also afraid of many things such as from of darkness which is also called nyctophobia and it is a very common fear which almost every child has. There are many surveys conducted and almost 90% of children are afraid of darkness. So, once upon a time I was sleeping and I woke up in the middle of the night and see that it's all dark around me and I started running because I did not wanted to face the darkness and swiftly ran towards my parents room and the thing I saw left me shocked that there was no one in the room. So, I ran back towards my room took a blanket and started speaking 'HANUMAN CHALISA' so that I could overcome my fair and it worked, I became very confident and started roaming in my house and suddenly I heard my mother calling me but I was unable to find her and I woke up and then realized that it was a dream and told the whole incident to my parents and they said to remember one word 'PAIN' which means P-Positive A-Attitude I-In N-Negative S-Situation so,always be positive as it builds our confidence and helps to overcome anxiety and they also said to take deep breathes and start thinking about something that amuse you and stop thinking about the fear.

 

Srishti

Fears

Year 2020 is the most difficult and challenging year for the whole country.the whole country was locked during this lockdown.But there is a good news during these hard time.By staying at home,most of the people bring a new version of themselves.some of them might have learn quite new things,some might have discovered the talent hidden in them or some of them might have overcome the difficulties/fears of their life and so many things.Before this lockdown,I srishti,used to have a cynophobia (fear of dogs) and i hate maths that much that i started having a fear of maths.I was too scared of maths and dogs since i was a kid.I never scored good marks in maths and i never go to that place where i saw dogs.During lockdown once i saw some puppies near my house.They were starving.So, I feed them some food.After that i found that there there was a small house in the park where the puppies were living.So, I started feeding them everyday.After feedings,they all come and started playing with me. After that I get to know that actually dogs are not that much scary they are very good,nice and faithful to everyone,until or unless we harm them.As for maths,I started spending more time on mathematics compared to other subjects. I also got a very good tutor to instruct me.she explains every thing in a very simple way.Her teaching makes me very confident.I started having fun and enjoying maths.In the last exams i even scored good marks in maths. From these incidents and this lockdown i learned one thing is that to overcome our fears we have to face the fears and never should be afraid of any phobia.At any time,any moment we should have positive thoughts and think about positive results to face any fear.Now last but not the least is that we should try to overcome our fears till the end..

 

Harshita Goyal

Fears

Humans are born with only two fears-first, fear of falling and second fear of loud noises. Other than these two fears rest of all of them are learnt through the course of life. As we start growing and become aware of the world around us, we subconsciously start learning fears as well,like fear of failure,fear of losing your loved ones,fear of darkness and many more. Sometimes fear is important for us to keep ourselves and others in check. When you fear of losing your loved ones you take care of them or keep a check that they don't harm themselves in any manner. When we fear of failing in something, we work hard to succeed. I feared about failing and future all the time. I could not stop thinking about what if I make wrong choices and end up failing in future. When the time came to make a career choice it felt like I was standing in some sort of maze. There were so many thoughts rushing into my mind all the time,like,what if I I don't like my work,what if I don't succeed and many more. These thoughts were certainly coming to my mind because I wanted things to be perfect in my life.I didn't want to waste my time in switching my careers. All I could imagine was a perfect life where I wouldn't be just successful but absolutely love my work. My parents tried to talk me out of it but I still couldn't concentrate on my present. We all have heard its important to go with flow,stop planning things that you can't control and enjoy the journey to reach to your destination. But it's not as simple as to apply this in real. I didn't only talk to my parents but all the people in my family who could advice me regarding my problems. I had these conversations so many time that I finally realized that thinking about the future is of no use until and unless I start concentrating on my present. This realization not only gives me peace of  mind but control of my present as well.

 

Vaibhav Mittal

Conquering My Fear of Writing

Fear though a tiny four letters word has a deep influence on an individual. It is a common emotion confronted by almost every person at least once in his or her lifespan. Many people live lives devoid of joy, comfort, and pleasure, but no one escapes the experience of fear and pain (its companion). Fear of loud noises, strangers, darkness, fictional creatures, water, fire, heights, seclusion or animals is ordinary amongst the people. But my fear is a bit unalike. I fear of writing essays or articles or expressing myself in my own words. I loathe writing huge essays or descriptive paragraphs in exams too. Due to this reason alone I hate English and Hindi exams (distinctly Section- B and D) in which I am compelled to pen down myriad of words on a single topic (often extempore). I always tend to avoid them and attempting them at the end. Whenever I am supposed to write on some topic myself my mind stops performing, my hands become cold and dry and my face turns as white as a sheet. Though at such situations I get aid from the Google and some writing tools but it is not possible in case of exams. It is quoted that” If you are wearing shoes, you don’t fear the thorns”. Therefore to battle with my phobia and to conquer it I practiced a lot to write in my own words during the lockdown. In addition I started reading more and more books and also listened to the public speeches of the famous politicians and industrialists. And this story is a result of this practice only.

 

Rukshar

My Fear - came true

We all have a fear of losing someone,We don't want to lose the person who is closest to our heart can run away from us and never come back,even if we want to. I also have fear that I will lose someone who is closest to our heart,but now I am not afraid because when we learn how to face our fear than that fear gets over. My biggest fear is losing my family . Last month my fear turns into reality when my mother passed away,she is no more. It is very difficult to me and my family to accept this truth ,we feel that she is alive and with us all time while the truth is that she is no More. For us , this truth is not less than a shock . Maybe she also want to spend a little more time with us but God didn't want. Now only her memories are left. Now I have decided not to be afraid of any fear of death . I have come to know that we all have to died one day,why should not we spend our rest of life without any fear? Why don't we change our fear into our strength and live our life with full of happiness and joy. Turn your fear into your strength and than you will become fearless.....

 

Chetna Rana

My Fear of grades

We all have a fear of losing someone,We don't want to lose the person who is closest to our heart can run away from us and never come back,even if we want to. I also have fear that I will lose someone who is closest to our heart,but now I am not afraid because when we learn how to face our fear than that fear gets over. My biggest fear is losing my family . Last month my fear turns into reality when my mother passed away,she is no more. It is very difficult to me and my family to accept this truth ,we feel that she is alive and with us all time while the truth is that she is no More. For us , this truth is not less than a shock . Maybe she also want to spend a little more time with us but God didn't want. Now only her memories are left. Now I have decided not to be afraid of any fear of death . I have come to know that we all have to died one day,why should not we spend our rest of life without any fear? Why don't we change our fear into our strength and live our life with full of happiness and joy. Turn your fear into your strength and than you will become fearless.....

 

Vanshika Jagi

My Fear of losing of loved ones 

Everyone has some type of fears in there life.Somebody have fears of animals,somebody have fears of heights etc. But I have fear of losing my loved ones.Now you all are thinking that I am honna talk about my bf. Hahaha!! Your guess is totally wrong . Loved ones does not mean bf or gf. For a daughter her only loved is her Dad . In my mind there is always a fear of losing him. One day this fear turned into a fact. On "6,October,2018" I lost my dad after this day my life was fully changed and on that day my exams were on going . From morning my heart was beating very fast . I was wortied tha why? Was my heart beaying this faster. When I was giving paper suddenly my mam came to me and told me that my maternal is here to pick me. I was shocked. I thought that my dad wass ill early morning may be they have admitted dad in hospital and they need me at home but I was totally wrong when I reached home and saw my porch there were couples of shoes pair presented. I thought that may be some guests are at home. Again , I was wrong . When I entered the house there was a body cpvered with a blanket I can't recognise it at all . When I entered the second room all were crying and my maternal grandma told me that "your dad is no more". At that I was in shock suddenly I just seated on my knees. That was a movement I can't forget at all . All ritiuals were performed which we perform in a hindu culture. For one month I was not in my sense that time I was felling that please dad come to me. But when I saw my mom who has made courage for me and my sister and not to cry in front of us. Then I came out of that troma and realised that one day we all have to go to heaven. In fact there is a proverb in hindi that "Jo aya hai usse ek na ek din jana hi hai".After seeing my mother courage I also became strong and overcomed out from these incident . After this incident my fear has gone through my mind but not from my heart because you can overcome from that thing but not overcome with the feelings towards that person. This is the story of my fear this is very personal to me but I have to become strong and have to give courage to other teenagers out there that why I have shared this thing with you.

 

Krisha Sharma

Fear